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Wedding Day Timeline

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Planning a wedding day perfectly is hard: when to book hair and make-up, when to leave for the ceremony, whether there is time for portraits before dinner. Especially when getting ready, the ceremony and the party are in three different parts of town.

Below is the plan I use myself, with some buffer for each part. It is not a strict schedule but a guide: where the day usually eats time, and how to leave room for good photographs.

Bride getting ready on the wedding morning
01

Morning and getting ready

The bride’s morning is one of the most alive parts of the day: the last touches of make-up, the dress, the nerves, the people closest to you. I usually arrive towards the end of make-up and start with the details — the dress, rings, shoes, invitations — while everyone is busy.

If the groom gets ready somewhere else, decide in advance where the photographer should be: one photographer cannot be in two places at once.

Hair and make-up2–3 hours
Photographer arrives1–1.5 hours before leaving
First look of the couple before the ceremony
02

First look before the ceremony

More and more couples meet privately before the ceremony — no guests, no rush. It takes the edge off the nerves and gives wonderfully honest emotions in the photos.

A bonus: some of the couple portraits can be done right after the first look, so you do not have to leave your guests for long after the ceremony.

Time needed20–30 minutes
Wedding ceremony
03

The ceremony

The ceremony itself — in a church or a civil one — is usually shorter than you expect. Arrive with a margin: fifteen minutes late shifts the whole rest of the day.

For a church ceremony, ask about the photography rules in advance: where the photographer may stand and whether photos are allowed during the service. In churches I work without flash so as not to disturb.

Duration20–45 minutes
Tipcheck the church’s photo rules in advance
Guests congratulating the couple after the ceremony
04

Congratulations and group photos

Right after the ceremony, while everyone is together, is the best moment for group photos. Later the guests scatter and gathering everyone again is almost impossible.

Make a short list of groups in advance and ask a guest who knows everyone to help round people up. Then group photos take minutes, not half an hour of searching.

Time needed20–30 minutes
What helpsa group list + a helper among the guests
Couple portrait session at sunset
05

Couple portraits

Thirty to sixty minutes is enough for portraits — longer and you get tired and the guests get bored. The best light is the hour before sunset.

In Gothenburg that matters a lot: at the end of June the sun sets around 22:00, so you can steal twenty minutes during dinner. In winter it gets dark early — around 15:30 in December — so portraits are best planned before the ceremony or straight after it.

Time needed30–60 minutes
Best lightthe hour before sunset
Champagne glasses at the wedding dinner
06

Dinner and speeches

Speeches during dinner are a big part of a Swedish wedding, and there can be many of them. Ask the toastmaster to give the photographer a heads-up before each speech: the most honest reactions are on the faces of those listening.

I take a short break during dinner, timed so that I do not miss a single speech.

Tipagree on pauses with the toastmaster
The couple in the evening lights of the party
07

Cake, first dance and the evening

It is better not to push the first dance too late — while all the guests are still there and full of energy. Straight after dinner or after the cake is a good moment.

How long the photographer stays depends on the package: with me that is 3, 8 or 12 hours of coverage. If you want the whole evening, count the time from getting ready to the first dance.

When to danceright after dinner or the cake
Packages3, 8 or 12 hours

Show me your plan

Send me a draft of your timeline before you finalise it. I will look at where photo time runs short and suggest where you can save time without losing anything.

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